This past week I had a very important visitor, my mom :), I spent the weekend with her in Cairo and then she came to visit me in Alexandria.

My mother arrived last Friday in Cairo, so I went to Cairo to go meet her. My trip to Cairo wasn't well planned because going to Cairo doesn't require much planning at all, but I will never again not plan my trip ahead of time. Because I was so late in trying to buy a train ticket they were all sold out. This isn't a big deal because there are buses so I asked an old man who was also trying to go to Cairo where the micro buses were. He sent me with his son to buy a ticket for a legitimate bus instead. So the old man, his son, and I get to the bus and we are sitting together because we bought the tickets together. The old man insisted I sit with his son who is a 30 or 40 year old man and I really don't want to but hi insisited. SO the son didn't stop talking to me the entire ride. I think this guy had to be the most annoying and obnoxious person I had ever met. I couldn't believe the way he was acting.
For the first hour, of course, he wants to fix my arabic. Fine, thanks I know I am not perfect at Arabic but really I am in class all week and in my free time I am doing homework, I don't feel like doing this now. So I told him that because it was getting to be too much. And he was like "oh okay" and I am hoping he will stop talking to me at this point and to ensure he does I tell him I am going to listen to music and I want to relax and look out the window. And his response " Oh can I listen to one ear phone while you listen to another??" And I straight up told him "No!" So at this point I really think he is going to get the hint that I don't want to talk to him. Anyway his response to this was to start playing is own music outloud from his phone. Okay, great fine as long as he isn't bothering me. Oh but he insists that I take my head phones out to listen. I listen for a few seconds and put my headphones back in and really at this point he should know I don't want to talk to him.
So after about 5 minutes, he starts saying my name. I pretend I don't hear him. So then he starts waving his hand in front of my face until I look at him. Ugh! So what did he want? He wanted me to buy him tea. Really?? So I say okay while looking so utterly confused and annoyed. There is no way this guy couldn't tell I was annoyed I didn't hold back my facial expressions at this point. So I put my headphones back in hoping he will just leave me alone for the rest of the time.
No. He didn't. He wouldn't. It was amazing. Every five minutes he would tell me something that I don't care about. One time it was about his family troubles, other times he would just repeat random words in the most exaggerated manner over and over again. This was his attempt to teach me Arabic. Tap on shoulder, I look over, he says "River. River. River. Now repeat. River. River." I try not to be super annoyed at his attempts to teach me Arabic but I really had to hold back and I don't think I did a very good job. I quickly would say it and assure him that I knew the word river and put my headphones back in.
This just continued and continued. It was just so unbelievable. I am not exaggerating when I say 5 minutes didn't pass on the 4 hour bus ride without him trying to talk to me.
Besides the bus ride my weekend in Cairo was uneventful but still nice. I got to see my mother and we sat with her family in a number of different locations, my grandfather's house, my mother's uncle's house, and a cafe.
I returned to Alexandria on Monday (I made sure to take the train) because I had class and homework and a dish part to plan! In honor of my mother's visit and to show off the new apartment I thought a dish party would be appropriate! It was great, we had all sorts of delicious food (thank you to all the Egyptian mothers who cooked)
You are looking at macarona beshamel, chicken and rice, two plates of stuffed grape leaves or mashy, there was meat pies, koshery, molkhia, and more rice. Then later on more food came but sorry I don't have a picture of that. Its safe to say I won't be going hungry for a while.
There was music, shisha, and food. I think my favorite part was having my mom meet everyone in the program. Of course everyone loved her :) Other than that it was really nice having everyone come and hang out together outside of class. The people in the program are really great. I learned what happens to your coffee when you are rude to your barista, I heard different perspectives on different world leaders and everyone talked about some of their experiences in Egypt.
I was going to go to Cairo with my mom on Thursday but she had meetings and such so she decided to spend the day with me in Alexandria and that she would just go back alone. So the day after the dish party my mother and I hung out in my apartment, went to the hair dresser, sat in a cafe, and then returned to my apartment, ate and sat on the balcony :) It was nice and I wish she could have stayed longer!
On another note, I have now been in Egypt for a month and I am loving it! I have my new apartment which is a only a block away from the sea, I have great friends, and I am apart of an awesome program! I finally feel settled and am totally excited to continue with the rest of the year.
There are several new developments:
-I bought my ticket to Morocco! I will be going to Morocco for Christmas and then spending New Year's in Spain! So excited!
-Also Cinema Club should be starting this week. Our first movie: Bolt!